When Persistence Becomes a Way of Avoiding a Decision: Knowing When to Let Go of a Goal
Psychreg,
Reading Time: 5 minutes Quick summary: Persistence is only a virtue when it keeps you connected to something that still matters…
Pszichológusok szerint ez az 5 legjobb módszer arra, hogy ne ragadj benne a „majd jobb lesz” állapotban
nlc,
A remény fontos erőforrás. Segíthet túlélni a nehéz időszakokat, kitartást adhat, amikor még nem látjuk a megoldást, és megakadál…
I spent most of my 30s believing I was building a life, then I realized I was actually defending one, and somewhere in my 40s, I had to figure out whether the defense had become the entire structure
Bolde,
I was sitting in a parking garage with my car engine off. I’d just left a meeting I didn’t want to be in, on my way to another…
I spent five years trying to optimize my way out of midlife and ended up learning that the version of myself I was optimizing toward was already obsolete by the time I started building him, and the actual work of your 40s isn’t optimization, it’s quietly retiring the goals that no longer belong to you
Bolde,
When I turned 41, I made a five-year plan.